“There is no finish line. When you reach one goal, find a new one”. – Chuck Norris
Play infinite games of improvement instead of trying to achieve a trophy (for the mantle or as spouse).
Instead of trying to get the promotion, focus on being worthy of the promotion by doing the best you can and consistently increasing what that best is.
Climb the mountain and enjoy the view, but the next morning start climbing he next one. Not for the accolades, but for the challenge. For the adventure. For the journey, both external and internal. Fall in love with the process of improvement and you will never finish your task but will never be disappointed either.