“Choice is an illusion created between those with power and those without.” -Merovingian
The illusion of choice is one of the most subtle and devious of tricks, because it plays off of not deception but a harsh reality: that the individual is limited and no matter what the decision is the System wins.
There is a Native American saying: the left wing and the right wing belong to the same bird
Heads and tails are both part of the same coin, and it might be better to instead roll the dice because it is a different game, maybe one where the person making the coins (or flipping) them always wins.
Look at any situation in which you have a limited number of choices lain out for you. Why are those the only paths you can walk along, and see if you can get the view from above to see if they all lead to the same destination
Maybe it is better to create new options.